How to Break Free from Victim Mentality

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Mark England — co-founder of Enlifted and a respected voice in language and mindset coaching — to explore how the stories we tell ourselves shape our identity, block our healing, and keep us trapped in victim mentality.

We dive into what victim mentality really is, how it shows up in your daily language, and why unresolved emotional stories silently sabotage your confidence, relationships, and potential.

Mark walks us through his powerful 4-step method for rewriting personal narratives, unlocking the breath, and shifting from participant to observer in your own life — creating space for clarity, healing, and freedom.

We also explore how childhood programming and inner dialogue silently drive adult decision-making, and how one word can completely transform your reality.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the past, held back by fear, or ready to release your old story and reclaim your power — this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Robert Whitfield — board-certified plastic surgeon and breast implant illness specialist — to uncover the hidden risks behind breast implants and why more women are choosing to explant for their health and healing.

We talk about what most doctors don’t disclose: how biofilm infections, inflammation, and even emotional trauma can silently build up around implants over time — and how that may lead to chronic fatigue, anxiety, autoimmune symptoms, and a deep disconnection from the body.

Dr. Whitfield shares how breast implant illness (BII) presents itself, what to look for, and how explant surgery can become a path to physical and emotional restoration.

We also dive into how implants can interfere with heart-centered living, self-trust, and the body’s natural healing intelligence.

If you’ve ever felt “off” in your body, are considering implants, or are curious about explanting — this episode offers the honest conversation most women never get to hear.

In this week’s episode, I’m being interviewed by Miesha Tate—former UFC World Champion, CBS Celebrity Big Brother 3 winner and motivational speaker.

Miesha held space for a powerful and honest conversation where we dove deep into what it really means to “find your frequency.”

We explored the Ladder of Consciousness, the illusion of external success, and the inner awakening that led me to walk away from a multimillion-dollar business in order to live a life aligned with truth.

I opened up about the moments that broke me, the healing that rebuilt me, and how spiritual clarity became the only true measure of success in my life.

Together, we unpacked the patterns that keep us stuck, the courage it takes to listen to your soul, and why alignment—not achievement—is the ultimate freedom.

If you’re ready to stop settling, tune in. This conversation is your wake-up call.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Regena Thomashauer — best known as Mama Gena — best-selling author and founder of The School of Womanly Arts, to explore how women can reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their power, and awaken the goddess within.

We dive deep into the root of disconnection so many women silently carry — from their pleasure, their voice, their sensuality — and how centuries of shame have separated them from their divine essence.

Regena shares her journey from trauma to transformation, why “pleasure is a birthright,” and how reclaiming the feminine is not just personal — it’s revolutionary.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, your power, or your feminine essence—this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Jeffrey Stegman and Clayten Stedmann, co-founders of FLFE (Focused Life-Force Energy), to uncover how invisible energy fields can radically transform your life—from emotional healing to better sleep and peace at home.

We dive into the unseen energy in our environments, how harmful EMFs affect our consciousness, and why most of us are unknowingly living in low-vibrational spaces that drain our vitality.

We also explore how energy impacts relationships, addiction, trauma, and personal growth—and how a high consciousness field can empower you to break through old patterns and reclaim your true self.

If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to raise the energy in your home and heart, this episode will expand your perspective on what’s possible—beyond the physical.

In this week’s episode, I’m being interviewed by Caroline Middelsdorf—a trauma expert, coach, and international psychologist who has not only studied healing but lived it.
Caroline held space for one of the most raw and honest conversations I’ve had, as we explored what’s really blocking us from love, peace, and the freedom to live as our true selves.
I opened up about my own journey—through grief, ego death, spiritual awakening, and plant medicine—and how all of it led me back to the heart. Together, we unpack the stories we cling to, the patterns we inherit, and why so many of us are stuck in our heads, disconnected from our own light.
If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or are ready to break free and return to love—this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Francesca Barone and Neils Nahm—transformational coaches and co-founders of Anam Cara Healing Retreats in Costa Rica—to talk about a topic few are willing to explore: the dark side of ayahuasca retreats.

While many speak about the magic, healing, and breakthroughs that can happen in ceremony, Francesca Neils and I open up about the hidden shadows that also emerge—emotional bypassing, spiritual ego, lack of integration, and the danger of commercialization in sacred medicine spaces.

With years of experience guiding people through deep somatic and spiritual work, they shed light on what truly makes a retreat safe, respectful, and transformational.

We dive into the importance of proper guidance, honoring indigenous lineages like the Shipibo Nation, and doing the integration work after the ceremony is over.

If you’ve ever felt called to plant medicine or are questioning the integrity of some spaces out there, this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Higher Self, we’re pressing pause to reflect on what your business, relationships, and health are trying to reveal about your inner world.

As Q1 of 2025 wraps, it’s the perfect moment to ask yourself: What am I avoiding? What patterns keep repeating? And what is life trying to teach me right now?

I’ll walk you through a powerful framework for self-inquiry using the three pillars of human mastery — money, relationships, and health — and share what came up for me personally this quarter.

If you’re ready to stop running on autopilot, face the truth within, and make real change, this episode will be a wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.

What if the belief that you’re inherently flawed or sinful is the very thing holding you back from the life you truly desire?

In this episode of The Higher Self, I dive deep into why labeling yourself as a sinner unconsciously attaches you to low-frequency energies like shame and guilt. I’ll share my own journey of shedding these limiting beliefs, how it transformed my health, relationships, and financial abundance, and why reclaiming your power and divinity is the key to awakening your highest self. If you’re ready to release old patterns, free yourself from guilt, and finally step into your authentic power, this episode is exactly what you’ve been searching for.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Patrick Porter, author, neuroscientist, and creator of BrainTap, to explore how to rewire the brain, release stress, and heal from within.

We talk about the effects of chronic stress, how your brain processes trauma, and why most people are running on survival mode without realizing it. Dr. Porter shares how light, sound, and visualization can reprogram your mind and body for better sleep, focus, and emotional health.

We also dive into emotional regulation, the power of neuroplasticity, and why unresolved feelings often lead to physical and mental burnout.

If you’re feeling anxious, tired, or stuck, this conversation offers powerful and practical tools to shift your energy and reclaim your brain.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Lewis Howes—bestselling author, podcast host, and entrepreneur—to explore the journey from deep trauma to true abundance.

He opens up about overcoming childhood abuse, confronting his anger, and the healing work that transformed his life.

We dive into money wounds, financial freedom, and abundance, uncovering the hidden emotional blocks that keep people stuck. Lewis also shares how past patterns shaped his relationships, why he started therapy before committing to his wife, and what it takes to build a conscious partnership.

What if the beliefs you’ve been holding onto about money are the very thing keeping you stuck?

In this episode of The Higher Self, I break down the truth about financial limitation and why most people unknowingly operate from fear instead of abundance. I’ll walk you through the key principles that changed my life: creating a powerful vision, choosing the right vehicle, developing essential skills, and cultivating the perseverance to push through obstacles. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns and step into a limitless financial future, this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Gregg Braden—a five-time New York Times bestselling author, scientist, and visionary known for bridging the gap between modern science and ancient spiritual wisdom.

We dive deep into a critical truth: Are we the last generation of pure humans? Gregg exposes the hidden agendas behind AI, transhumanism, and the rapid merging of technology with biology—a shift that could redefine what it means to be human.

He unpacks the battle between good and evil, the power of human divinity, and how we can reclaim our potential before it’s too late. If you’ve ever questioned the future of humanity, your connection to the divine, or the role of AI in shaping our destiny, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew.

What if everything you’ve believed about narcissists is actually keeping you stuck in pain? What if the labels we use are just another way to stay disconnected from the deeper healing we need?

In this episode, we dive into the energy behind the term “narcissist” and how it might be preventing you from truly moving forward. It’s not about dismissing your pain—it’s about understanding the deeper spiritual lessons behind it.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Peter Crone, also known as The Mind Architect—a transformational coach who has helped world-class athletes, celebrities, and entrepreneurs break free from mental limitations and step into true freedom.

Despite facing profound personal loss at a young age, Peter discovered a radical truth: suffering is not caused by circumstances, but by the meaning we attach to them. We dive deep into his journey, the power of language in shaping our reality, and the unseen mental programs that keep us trapped in fear and scarcity.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, held back by past trauma, or struggled to break free from limiting beliefs, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about healing and transformation.

The fear and division in today’s political climate aren’t just happening by chance. There’s a reason you feel anxious, overwhelmed, or even powerless.

Society has trained us to see ourselves through labels—race, nationality, political party—keeping us stuck in separation. But the truth is, none of these define who you really are.

This episode uncovers how fear is being used to manipulate the collective and how you can break free by shifting from external chaos to internal peace. When you stop feeding fear, you take your power back.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with David Ghiyam, a renowned spiritual teacher and entrepreneur who co-founded a billion-dollar wellness brand while dedicating his life to spreading the wisdom of Kabbalah.

Despite his massive success, David’s journey wasn’t about chasing wealth—it was about aligning with the deeper spiritual laws that govern abundance, relationships, and purpose. We dive into how he discovered Kabbalah, the ancient wisdom that transformed his life, and how he used it to build both a thriving business and a life of deep fulfillment.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to merge spirituality with real-world success, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew.

Feeling lost, stuck, or unfulfilled no matter how much you achieve? That’s because you’ve been lied to about purpose.

We’ve been programmed to believe that purpose is about doing, chasing success, money, or the perfect career. But the truth is, purpose has nothing to do with what you do and everything to do with who you are.

In this episode, I’ll break down the biggest misconception about purpose and show you how shifting from fear to love, from the mind to the heart, will unlock the peace and fulfillment you’ve been searching for.

Today, I’m sitting down with Nia Peeples, an actress, singer, and author best known for her roles in Fame, Walker, Texas Ranger, and Pretty Little Liars. Despite her Hollywood success, Nia walked away from fame, relationships, and the life she built to embark on a journey of deep spiritual awakening.

We explore what led her to leave Hollywood behind, the lessons she learned through four divorces, and how embracing the unknown transformed her life. Nia shares her path from overachieving in the spotlight to discovering true fulfillment by letting go of everything she once held onto.

If you’ve ever questioned the meaning of success, struggled with letting go, or felt the pull toward something greater, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew.

Today, I’m sitting down with Ryan Sprague, a cannabis expert, educator, and cultivator who helps people shift from dependency to empowerment with plant medicine. He challenges mainstream misconceptions, advocating for cannabis as a powerful tool for spiritual healing when used with intention and respect.

We explore the truth about cannabis, its history of prohibition, and how shifting your mindset can unlock deep personal transformation. Ryan shares his journey from anxiety and dependency to using cannabis as a sacred ally for growth.

If you’ve judged cannabis, struggled with it, or are curious about its true potential, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew.

Today, I’m sitting down with Jillian Turecki, a certified relationship coach, teacher, and speaker with over 20 years of experience. Jillian’s journey began with yoga and evolved into a deep exploration of relationships and personal transformation. Her work focuses on helping individuals heal their relationships with themselves and others.

In this episode, we discuss the lessons Jillian has learned from her own life, including overcoming an emotionally catastrophic breakup and discovering her purpose. We explore the two key factors in any relationship: who you choose as a partner and how you show up for them. Jillian also shares insights into how our subconscious beliefs shape our relationships and how to break free from cycles of pain and unworthiness.

Jillian’s perspective is raw, inspiring, and sure to challenge your views on love, healing, and self-discovery.

Today, I’m sitting down with Dr. Dain Heer, a globally renowned author, speaker, and co-creator of Access Consciousness. Once caught in the depths of depression, Dr. Heer discovered a transformative practice that saved his life in just one hour, setting him on a mission to help millions unlock their true potential.

In this episode, we explore profound questions about personal growth and consciousness. Dr. Heer challenges the idea of “fixing yourself,” suggesting many of us chase healing but never arrive. We examine whether people hold onto pain out of fear of the unknown and how hustle culture and the pursuit of wealth might disconnect us from our higher selves.

Perhaps most importantly, we dive into the concept of true freedom and why it’s so terrifying for many—it requires taking full responsibility for our lives. Dr. Heer’s insights are raw, inspiring, and sure to challenge your perspective on what’s possible.

Welcome to the first episode of The Higher Self in 2025! I’m kicking off the year with an incredible guest, Jaspreet Singh, financial educator and entrepreneur, for a conversation that has the potential to change your entire relationship with money.

In this episode, Jaspreet and I dive deep into what it takes to not just achieve financial freedom but find financial peace. We talk about breaking through generational money trauma, shifting your mindset from scarcity to abundance, and taking practical steps to reclaim control of your financial life. Jaspreet shares his powerful story—from growing up as the son of hardworking Indian immigrants to building successful businesses and educating millions through Minority Mindset. He opens up about the sacrifices he made, the lessons he learned through failure, and the tools he used to build lasting wealth.

In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny sits down with health expert and wellness advocate Alex Conley for a groundbreaking discussion on the truth about America’s food system, the hidden dangers of modern nutrition, and how you can reclaim your health. Together, they uncover why so many people are chronically sick, dehydrated, and nutrient-deficient despite following mainstream health advice.

Alex shares his personal journey of overcoming leukemia as a child, battling chronic disease in his 20s, and discovering the profound power of single-ingredient foods, mineral-rich water, and natural supplements. He dives deep into how the fitness industry, processed foods, and toxic water supplies have misled millions, contributing to an epidemic of illness in America.

In this episode of The Higher Self, I’m opening up about my deeply personal journey of overcoming six years of debilitating insomnia. It’s been one of the most challenging experiences of my life, and I’m sharing everything I learned along the way to finally heal my sleep and transform my health.

I’ll take you through the hidden reasons behind my sleepless nights, from extreme fasting and restrictive diets to the subconscious fears that kept me stuck. I’ll also share the breakthroughs that changed everything—how I learned to listen to my body, let go of perfection, and embrace true healing.

In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny sits down with spiritual teacher and thought leader Aaron Abke for a transformative discussion about the true teachings of Jesus, the evolution of Christianity, and reclaiming the power within. Together, they dive deep into the historical context of the Bible, the manipulation of religious doctrines, and the often-overlooked message of love and self-realization at the heart of Christ’s teachings.

Aaron unpacks his extensive research into the origins of Christianity, the contrast between Jesus’s message and Paul’s interpretation, and how the Roman Empire transformed a spiritual movement into a tool for control. He challenges traditional notions of sin, salvation, and separation from God, offering a liberating perspective on how to access the “kingdom within.”

This week on The Higher Self, Danny sits down with Jai Dev and Bronze, two members of his Inner Circle, for a deeply transformative conversation about relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. Together, they dive into the three core energies of human mastery—relationships, health, and finances—uncovering powerful insights for healing and evolution.

Jai Dev shares his journey of overcoming the need for external validation in relationships, exploring how plant medicine and inner work have helped him reconnect with his true self. Bronze opens up about breaking free from rigid patterns and rules in her relationships, revealing how embracing love and flexibility has been instrumental in her growth.

This raw and honest discussion provides a roadmap for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness, healthier relationships, and a more aligned life. Tune in to gain practical tools and inspiring perspectives for your own journey of healing and mastery.

In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny sits down with spiritual teacher Samuel B. Lee for a mind-expanding conversation about love, truth, and the liberation of the soul. Together, they explore the deeper layers of consciousness, the science of the 12-strand DNA, and the truth behind religious programming.

Samuel shares his profound knowledge on how humanity has been conditioned to seek external validation and authority, while the true power lies within. Drawing from ancient wisdom and personal experiences, they uncover how breaking free from societal and spiritual conditioning can awaken the Christ consciousness within us all. Danny opens up about his own journey of deconstructing religion, seeking truth, and the transformative power of plant medicine in unlocking deeper levels of self-awareness.

In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny sits down with the incredibly insightful and inspiring Suzanne Giesemann, a former Navy Commander turned renowned spiritual teacher, author, and evidential medium. Suzanne shares her profound journey from the structured life of the military to a path of spirituality, channeling, and helping others connect with their loved ones beyond. Her experiences, from flying on Air Force One to witnessing the spiritual awakenings that followed personal loss, will leave you in awe of the incredible power of transformation.

In this episode of The Higher Self, Danny welcomes back licensed psychotherapist and boundary expert, Terri Cole, for an in-depth conversation on high-functioning codependency, boundaries, and the hidden costs of people-pleasing. Terri shares her expertise on how high-achieving individuals—especially women—can get caught in a cycle of over-giving, auto-advice-giving, and hyper-independence, often to their own detriment. Together, they dive into why setting boundaries is essential for reclaiming your life, protecting your energy, and creating healthier relationships.