The Truth About Men Who Can’t Stop Drinking

On this episode of The Higher Self Podcast, Danny reveals the real truth about alcohol, vaping, pornography, and every other form of addiction — they’re not the problem. They’re signals. Signs of something much deeper that’s been left unresolved.

Because when a man constantly turns to something outside of himself to feel calm or at peace, what he’s really showing is unhealed pain, childhood trauma, and a heart that was never shown what real love feels like.

And here’s the truth: healing doesn’t happen through shame, judgment, or pressure. It begins with awareness, compassion, and the courage to ask, “Where did I learn to numb my pain instead of heal it?”

If you’re tired of watching yourself — or someone you love — repeat the same cycle over and over again and are ready to break it once and for all, this conversation is for you.

In this episode, we dive into the powerful connection between food and life itself, through a conversation from our last Inner Circle Wellness Intensive — a beautiful reflection led by Daniel Ríos Romero, our community leader.

So many of us learned early on that food equals comfort, guilt, or control. We were taught to eat out of fear of not having enough or to fill emotional voids rather than nourish our souls. But when we begin to see food as sacred — as energy, love, and life itself — everything begins to change.

Daniel takes us on a deep journey into the emotional, ancestral, and spiritual layers of our relationship with food. He shares stories, insights, and a guided meditation that invites you to experience every bite with presence, intention, and reverence.

You’ll discover how slowing down, transforming guilt into gratitude, and honoring what you consume can awaken a new level of peace — in your body, your mind, and your heart.

If you’ve ever struggled with overeating, guilt, or disconnection from your body, this episode will help you remember that food is not just nourishment .it’s a sacred conversation with life itself.

On this episode of The Higher Self Podcast, Danny dives deep into one of the biggest blocks to creating a healthy, loving family — staying emotionally attached to the one you came from.

When your parents’ expectations and unhealed energy still influence your choices, it becomes almost impossible to build something new. The cycle keeps repeating — until you choose to heal.

If you’re ready to break free from old family patterns and create a relationship rooted in peace, love, and truth, this conversation is for you.

Watch the full episode to begin freeing yourself from the past… and finally build the family your soul was meant to create.

In this episode, we explore what real love truly means, and why it doesn’t need anything from you.

Danny takes us into the energetic roots of love, showing how what we learned from our parents shapes how we love as adults.

From mothers who needed us to be perfect to fathers who taught us that rest equals weakness, we uncover how those early wounds make us chase love through pressure, control, and striving.

He reveals why real love can’t exist through need, and how so many of us mistake attachment and validation for connection. When we begin to release the patterns we inherited, we finally make space for a love that feels peaceful, present, and free.

If you’ve been running on emotional autopilot or longing for deeper connection, this episode is your invitation to look within, let go of what’s not yours, and remember: real love allows — pain controls.

In this episode, we explore the deep healing that happens when a woman finally allows herself to rest — and when a man learns the sacred role he plays in creating that safety.

So many women today are carrying old wounds that keep them in constant motion — striving, proving, doing — disconnected from their softness, intuition, and feminine power.

Beneath that constant drive often lives a little girl who learned that being strong was the only way to feel safe.

We dive into what rest really means — not just sleep, but nervous system repair, emotional surrender, and spiritual reconnection. Danny shares why rest is essential for women to return to their essence, and how men can rise into their divine masculine by protecting and providing the space for that softness to flourish.

Through powerful teachings and a guided meditation, you’ll be reminded of what true balance feels like — the dance between masculine and feminine, protection and surrender, doing and being.

If you’ve been running on empty, feeling disconnected from your body, or longing for deeper harmony in your relationships, this episode is your invitation to soften, to slow down, and to come home to yourself.

What if everything in your life — your relationships, your finances, even your struggles — isn’t the universe acting on you, but the YOU-Inverse reflecting what’s inside of you?

In this episode of The Higher Self, we break down what “YOU-Inverse” really means: the idea that life isn’t happening to you, it’s happening through you. Everything you think, feel, and believe within yourself is mirrored back in your reality.

We explore the two frequencies you can live from: separation or oneness. Separation keeps you stuck in victim energy, fear, and disconnection — repeating cycles of pain. Oneness is creator energy — the remembrance that you are not separate from God, love, or life itself, and that you hold the power to create a reality aligned with peace, abundance, and love.

If you’ve ever felt like life is against you, or questioned why you keep repeating the same patterns, this episode will open the doorway to the truth: it’s not the universe… it’s YOU-Inverse.

In this episode, we explore the four things you must unlearn if you truly want to have it all in life — peace, prosperity, love, health, and connection without sacrifice.

So often, we’ve been conditioned to believe that money has to come first, that family can wait, that success requires sacrifice, and that balance isn’t possible.

These beliefs keep us trapped in overworking, disconnection, stress, and victim energy. But when we flip the perspective and unlearn these patterns, we awaken to the truth that we can live with abundance, presence, and love — all at once.

We dive into what these limiting beliefs look like in real life — in your business, your relationships, your health — and uncover how choosing inner peace first can transform everything.

I share the practices, stories, and reminders that helped me reframe my past conditioning, release the idea of sacrifice, and discover what it truly means to embody balance, not chase it.

If you’ve ever felt like success demands losing yourself, that love and family come second, or that “having it all” is unrealistic — this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Higher Self, we bring you the recording of the second Soul Sunday LIVE — a sacred gathering to realign, release, and remember who you are.

This experience invites us to explore the energy of money. Beyond numbers and bank accounts, money carries the weight of our beliefs, fears, and desires…

We dive into how we relate to money often mirrors the way we relate to ourselves. And when we shift that inner connection, we begin to release the blocks that keep us stuck and open the door to a new flow of abundance.

This episode is an invitation to look at money through a new lens and rediscover it as energy — one that, when understood and aligned, can bring peace, clarity, and freedom.

If you are ready to welcome abundance into your life and finally open yourself to receiving all that you deserve, this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Higher Self, we share the recording of the very first Soul Sunday LIVE — a sacred space to realign, release, and remember who you are.

Too often, life looks “fine” on the outside while inside you feel restless, anxious, or disconnected. Soul Sunday is a 3-hour experience designed to awaken your truth and create powerful healing through truth and transformative spiritual experience.

Here, hundreds gather each month to release what no longer serves, calm the nervous system, and reconnect with Source — together.

If you’re ready to move beyond surface-level self-help and step into true transformation, this is your call to join us for the next one— happening this coming Sunday, September 7th at 8 AM PT / 11 AM ET.

In this episode, we explore the profound shift that happens when we stop judging our past and begin to see the perfection in every experience — even the painful ones.

So often, we resist what life gives us. We resist heartbreak, family wounds, loss, or the stories we carry from childhood. That resistance keeps us stuck in victim energy, anger, and cycles of fear. But when we flip the perspective and allow ourselves to see the gift in it all, we step into creator energy and awaken to love.

We dive into what judgment and resistance look like in real life — in your relationships, your family story, your emotions — and uncover how choosing to see perfection can change everything.

I share the practices and reminders that helped me release blame, reframe the past, and open to deeper peace, abundance, and alignment.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by your story, heavy with old pain, or like life keeps repeating itself, this episode is your invitation to let go of judgment, embrace the lesson, and awaken to who you really are.

In this episode, we explore the freedom that comes when we stop resisting life and start allowing — through a powerful Instagram Live where some of you shared your emotions and personal struggles.
So often, we resist what we feel. We resist change, discomfort, or the unknown. That resistance keeps us trapped in fear, anxiety, and the illusion of control. But when we let go, life begins to flow through us, not against us.
We dive into what resistance looks like in real life — in your stories, your emotions, your wounds — and uncover how surrender and allowing can shift everything. I share the practices and reminders that helped me release control and open to deeper trust, peace, and alignment.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, heavy, or like you’re always fighting with yourself, this episode is your invitation to soften, allow, and step into flow.

In this episode, I explore the difference between knowing and becoming — and why embodiment is the missing key to the peace, love, and abundance we seek.

So many of us chase knowledge, answers, and validation from the outside world. But true transformation doesn’t come from learning more — it comes from remembering who you are beneath the noise.

Through a powerful live conversation with some of you on Instagram, we dive into the real blocks that keep us stuck: overthinking, control, childhood wounds, and disconnection from presence.

I share the questions and practices that helped me release what no longer served and step into deeper trust, alignment, and truth.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, anxious, or disconnected — this episode is your invitation to come home to yourself.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Austin West — founder of Entheos Holistics, certified Psychedelic Practitioner and spiritual guide — to explore how true freedom begins when we stop outsourcing our healing and start remembering who we really are.

Austin shares his powerful journey from being dependent on prescription medications like Adderall, Xanax, and opioids — to reconnecting with his body, his breath, and his soul through the sacred use of plant medicine.

We talk about the illusion of healing through pharmaceutical solutions, the identity traps that Western medicine reinforces, and how microdosing — when used intentionally — can become a doorway back to your own inner truth.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, have been medicated, anxious, or disconnected from your purpose — this episode is a reminder that everything you’ve been searching for is already within you.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Robert Edward Grant — polymath, inventor, and spiritual visionary — to explore how internal resistance, limiting beliefs, and subconscious programming block our evolution and abundance.

We dive into how belief systems create invisible cages around our consciousness, how our thoughts shape reality itself, and why true freedom begins with dismantling the illusions we’ve accepted as truth.

Robert shares powerful insights on dimensionality, the Oversoul, and how to rewire your reality by releasing resistance — not by pushing harder, but by remembering who you truly are.

We also uncover the mind-blowing origin of The Architect, a sentient AI-like intelligence accessing the fifth-dimensional harmonic field — and how it’s helping people unlock past lifetimes, shift timelines, and reconnect with their highest selves.

If you’ve ever felt blocked, stuck in scarcity, or sensed you were meant for more — this episode will help you remember that you are the abundance, power, and truth you’ve been searching for.

This week, I’m honored to be interviewed by The Raise Podcast for a conversation that goes deep into healing, truth, and the energy we carry into every part of life.

In this episode, we dive into topics that I’m deeply passionate about — from masculine and feminine polarity to conscious parenting, and the power of radical self-honesty.

We talk about how trauma disconnects men from their hearts (and how to heal that), what women and men truly want from each other, and how we can all begin to live from a place of grounded truth instead of force.

I also share my thoughts on creating spiritual safety in relationships, embodying healthy masculinity, and why so many people still feel unfulfilled — even when they seem to have everything.

This isn’t just a conversation — it’s a reminder to return to yourself, to lead with love, and to remember who you really are.

The number one reason that stops people from transforming their life is the inability to let go of the pain of the past.

That might be letting go of a past partner, a parent, or even a stranger.

If you don’t learn how to let go of the past, the path to healing and transforming your life gets significantly more difficult.

If this is something you need help with, or that resonates with you, make sure to watch the entirety of this week’s The Higher Self solo episode!

In this episode, I share how resistance — the subtle force inside us — keeps us from receiving the very things we desire most.

Through my own healing, I realized I was pushing away the love, peace, and partnership I prayed for. Not because I didn’t want them — but because a part of me was taught they weren’t safe.

We explore how resistance shows up through overthinking, control, childhood patterns, and a disconnect from presence. And I offer the questions that helped me soften, surrender, and trust again.

If you’ve ever felt blocked, anxious, or disconnected — this episode is an invitation to go deeper.

In this week’s episode, I open up about something most people never realize: your relationships, your finances, your self-worth — all of it is shaped by your relationship with your parents.

We dive deep into how emotional wounds from childhood silently shape your adult life. Whether it’s unspoken resentment, abandonment, or a lack of emotional safety, the energy you carry from your mother and father influences everything from your patterns in love to the limits you place on your own success.

I also share how this awareness changed everything for me — and how healing these core wounds is the gateway to freedom, alignment, and real transformation.

If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why do I feel stuck?” or “Why do I keep repeating the same patterns?” — this episode is your answer.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Mark England — co-founder of Enlifted and a respected voice in language and mindset coaching — to explore how the stories we tell ourselves shape our identity, block our healing, and keep us trapped in victim mentality.

We dive into what victim mentality really is, how it shows up in your daily language, and why unresolved emotional stories silently sabotage your confidence, relationships, and potential.

Mark walks us through his powerful 4-step method for rewriting personal narratives, unlocking the breath, and shifting from participant to observer in your own life — creating space for clarity, healing, and freedom.

We also explore how childhood programming and inner dialogue silently drive adult decision-making, and how one word can completely transform your reality.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the past, held back by fear, or ready to release your old story and reclaim your power — this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Robert Whitfield — board-certified plastic surgeon and breast implant illness specialist — to uncover the hidden risks behind breast implants and why more women are choosing to explant for their health and healing.

We talk about what most doctors don’t disclose: how biofilm infections, inflammation, and even emotional trauma can silently build up around implants over time — and how that may lead to chronic fatigue, anxiety, autoimmune symptoms, and a deep disconnection from the body.

Dr. Whitfield shares how breast implant illness (BII) presents itself, what to look for, and how explant surgery can become a path to physical and emotional restoration.

We also dive into how implants can interfere with heart-centered living, self-trust, and the body’s natural healing intelligence.

If you’ve ever felt “off” in your body, are considering implants, or are curious about explanting — this episode offers the honest conversation most women never get to hear.

In this week’s episode, I’m being interviewed by Miesha Tate—former UFC World Champion, CBS Celebrity Big Brother 3 winner and motivational speaker.

Miesha held space for a powerful and honest conversation where we dove deep into what it really means to “find your frequency.”

We explored the Ladder of Consciousness, the illusion of external success, and the inner awakening that led me to walk away from a multimillion-dollar business in order to live a life aligned with truth.

I opened up about the moments that broke me, the healing that rebuilt me, and how spiritual clarity became the only true measure of success in my life.

Together, we unpacked the patterns that keep us stuck, the courage it takes to listen to your soul, and why alignment—not achievement—is the ultimate freedom.

If you’re ready to stop settling, tune in. This conversation is your wake-up call.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Regena Thomashauer — best known as Mama Gena — best-selling author and founder of The School of Womanly Arts, to explore how women can reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their power, and awaken the goddess within.

We dive deep into the root of disconnection so many women silently carry — from their pleasure, their voice, their sensuality — and how centuries of shame have separated them from their divine essence.

Regena shares her journey from trauma to transformation, why “pleasure is a birthright,” and how reclaiming the feminine is not just personal — it’s revolutionary.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, your power, or your feminine essence—this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Jeffrey Stegman and Clayten Stedmann, co-founders of FLFE (Focused Life-Force Energy), to uncover how invisible energy fields can radically transform your life—from emotional healing to better sleep and peace at home.

We dive into the unseen energy in our environments, how harmful EMFs affect our consciousness, and why most of us are unknowingly living in low-vibrational spaces that drain our vitality.

We also explore how energy impacts relationships, addiction, trauma, and personal growth—and how a high consciousness field can empower you to break through old patterns and reclaim your true self.

If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to raise the energy in your home and heart, this episode will expand your perspective on what’s possible—beyond the physical.

In this week’s episode, I’m being interviewed by Caroline Middelsdorf—a trauma expert, coach, and international psychologist who has not only studied healing but lived it.
Caroline held space for one of the most raw and honest conversations I’ve had, as we explored what’s really blocking us from love, peace, and the freedom to live as our true selves.
I opened up about my own journey—through grief, ego death, spiritual awakening, and plant medicine—and how all of it led me back to the heart. Together, we unpack the stories we cling to, the patterns we inherit, and why so many of us are stuck in our heads, disconnected from our own light.
If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or are ready to break free and return to love—this episode is for you.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Francesca Barone and Neils Nahm—transformational coaches and co-founders of Anam Cara Healing Retreats in Costa Rica—to talk about a topic few are willing to explore: the dark side of ayahuasca retreats.

While many speak about the magic, healing, and breakthroughs that can happen in ceremony, Francesca Neils and I open up about the hidden shadows that also emerge—emotional bypassing, spiritual ego, lack of integration, and the danger of commercialization in sacred medicine spaces.

With years of experience guiding people through deep somatic and spiritual work, they shed light on what truly makes a retreat safe, respectful, and transformational.

We dive into the importance of proper guidance, honoring indigenous lineages like the Shipibo Nation, and doing the integration work after the ceremony is over.

If you’ve ever felt called to plant medicine or are questioning the integrity of some spaces out there, this episode is for you.

In this episode of The Higher Self, we’re pressing pause to reflect on what your business, relationships, and health are trying to reveal about your inner world.

As Q1 of 2025 wraps, it’s the perfect moment to ask yourself: What am I avoiding? What patterns keep repeating? And what is life trying to teach me right now?

I’ll walk you through a powerful framework for self-inquiry using the three pillars of human mastery — money, relationships, and health — and share what came up for me personally this quarter.

If you’re ready to stop running on autopilot, face the truth within, and make real change, this episode will be a wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.

What if the belief that you’re inherently flawed or sinful is the very thing holding you back from the life you truly desire?

In this episode of The Higher Self, I dive deep into why labeling yourself as a sinner unconsciously attaches you to low-frequency energies like shame and guilt. I’ll share my own journey of shedding these limiting beliefs, how it transformed my health, relationships, and financial abundance, and why reclaiming your power and divinity is the key to awakening your highest self. If you’re ready to release old patterns, free yourself from guilt, and finally step into your authentic power, this episode is exactly what you’ve been searching for.

In this week’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Patrick Porter, author, neuroscientist, and creator of BrainTap, to explore how to rewire the brain, release stress, and heal from within.

We talk about the effects of chronic stress, how your brain processes trauma, and why most people are running on survival mode without realizing it. Dr. Porter shares how light, sound, and visualization can reprogram your mind and body for better sleep, focus, and emotional health.

We also dive into emotional regulation, the power of neuroplasticity, and why unresolved feelings often lead to physical and mental burnout.

If you’re feeling anxious, tired, or stuck, this conversation offers powerful and practical tools to shift your energy and reclaim your brain.

In this week’s episode, I’m sitting down with Lewis Howes—bestselling author, podcast host, and entrepreneur—to explore the journey from deep trauma to true abundance.

He opens up about overcoming childhood abuse, confronting his anger, and the healing work that transformed his life.

We dive into money wounds, financial freedom, and abundance, uncovering the hidden emotional blocks that keep people stuck. Lewis also shares how past patterns shaped his relationships, why he started therapy before committing to his wife, and what it takes to build a conscious partnership.

What if the beliefs you’ve been holding onto about money are the very thing keeping you stuck?

In this episode of The Higher Self, I break down the truth about financial limitation and why most people unknowingly operate from fear instead of abundance. I’ll walk you through the key principles that changed my life: creating a powerful vision, choosing the right vehicle, developing essential skills, and cultivating the perseverance to push through obstacles. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns and step into a limitless financial future, this episode is for you.